You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah

"7th grade drama just hits different."

2023

1h 43m

6.5(525 votes)

Comedy

Drama

Overview

Stacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic bat mitzvahs. But things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendship and their rite of passage.

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Cast & crew

10 featured cast members

Starring

Sunny Sandler

Stacy Friedman

Samantha Lorraine

Lydia Rodriguez Katz

Dylan Hoffman

Andy Goldfarb

Dylan Chloe Dash

Tara

Millie Thorpe

Nikki

Miyako

Kym Chang Cohen

Dean Scott Vazquez

Mateo

Idina Menzel

Bree Friedman

Adam Sandler

Danny Friedman

Jackie Sandler

Gabi Rodriguez Katz

Creative team

Directed by: Sammi Cohen
Written by: Alison Peck
Produced by: Elysa Koplovitz Dutton
Leslie Morgenstein

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