Your Friends & Neighbors

Your Friends & Neighbors

Your Friends & Neighbors

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Your Friends & Neighbors

"A modern immorality tale."

1998

1h 47m

5.8(83 votes)

Drama

Comedy

Overview

Restless and unhappy, two couples get caught up in infidelity and deception. Barry is a sullen businessman married to Mary, a writer who is unsatisfied with their relationship. Mary begins an affair with Jerry, a smug theater professor and husband of her friend, Terri, who is also a writer. Adding to the adulterous mix are Cary, a callous doctor, and Cheri, an art-gallery assistant.

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Production Companies

Propaganda Films

PolyGram Filmed Entertainment

Gramercy Pictures

The people behind it

Cast & crew

8 featured cast members

Starring

Amy Brenneman

Amy Brenneman

Mary

Aaron Eckhart

Aaron Eckhart

Barry

Ben Stiller

Ben Stiller

Jerry

Nastassja Kinski

Nastassja Kinski

Cheri

Jason Patric

Jason Patric

Cary

Catherine Keener

Catherine Keener

Terri

Lola Glaudini

Lola Glaudini

Jerry's Student (uncredited)

Josh Dotson

Co-Worker

Creative team

Directed by: Neil LaBute
Written by: Neil LaBute
Produced by: Steve Golin
Jason Patric

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