Telling Nicholas

Telling Nicholas

Telling Nicholas

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Telling Nicholas

"How do you tell him Mommy's not coming home?"

2002

1h 25m

8.5(2 votes)

Documentary

TV Movie

Overview

A father wonders how to explain to his seven-year-old not only that his mother has died, but also the cruel way in which it happened.

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HBO

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5 featured cast members

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Nicholas Lanza

Self

Thanbir Ahmed

Self

Robert Lanza

Self

James Ronald Whitney

James Ronald Whitney

Self

Gilda Carle

Self (as Dr. Gilda Carle)

Creative team

Directed by: James Ronald Whitney
Written by: James Ronald Whitney
Produced by: James Ronald Whitney

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