2017

1h 35m

5.0(11 votes)

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Over the course of four decades, filmmaker Paul Oremland documented his romantic and sexual encounters with roughly one hundred men. He preserved nearly all of these detailed recollections and threaded them together in a portrait of a gay life.

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Directed by: Paul Oremland

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